Mothering the Mother was started in 2010 because of a passion Michelle Hardy had for helping teen and low income women. She believed that income (or lack of) shouldn’t be a indictator in whether a woman has access to high quality birth services and support. She began working in the birth world in 2003, and for many years she saw families who could afford the support and services receiving it, and families without expendable income either went without or struggled to pay for it. She knew there had to be a better way, and so her quest began.
Since the beginnings of Mothering the Mother in 2010 the organization has worked with over 325 families, and hopes to continue providing classes, doula referrals, and lactation services to families in Milwaukee, Waukesha, Racine, and Ozaukee counties for many years to come.
In addition to offering services to families, MTM also provides high quality workshops to individuals who would like to become birth workers and further the mission and vision.
To improve maternal and perinatal outcomes for families in Milwaukee and surrounding counties.
Access to high quality education, and services for all regardless of income.
MS.Ed, BS.Ed , LMT, ICCE, ICBD, ICPD, ICPFE, IAT(CE-BD-PD), MCH, LC, CPMT, CHT, CEIM, SBD (see below for explanation of initials)
For those looking to hire Michelle as a birth or postpartum doula please be aware she is semi retired, and is only doing repeat clients and very special cases. If you have a circumstance that might put you in the category of special cases please visit my page, check out what is included and my pricing, and if you are still interested please email me.
Michelle is the founder, owner, and director of Mothering the Mother, Inc, a non-profit organization which helps all women but has a special focus on helping teen and low income women and families.
Michelle's interest in working in the birth field began in 2001 when she was pregnant with her 7th child (she now is the happy mother to 9 children that range in age from 32 yrs down to 10 yrs). In 2001 she was pregnant with her seventh child and her doctor suggested that she and her husband, Bradley hire a doula for their upcoming birth. Her doctor felt that hiring a doula would help them achieve the birth that they were looking for and also to help calm her husband's nerves so that he could be more involved in the birth (unfortunately Michelle birthed her daughter before she was able to find a doula and that birth was filled with many unnecessary interventions and stress).
After that birthing experience Michelle knew that birth could be better and the seed was planted. Michelle spent the next two years thinking about the importance of doulas and how much she had wanted to be one. Unfortunately at the time she didn't think it was realistic for her to pursue this dream. Finally in 2003 while she was working on her masters degree in education and running a full time in home licensed daycare she decided to take the plunge and work towards becoming a certified birth doula and she wanted to start her own birth business. It was very hard running a full time business, working on her master's degree, and working towards doula certification, but her persistence and passion paid off. In 2003 she became a doula and in 2004 she graduated with her masters degree. At that time she realized teaching education in the school system was not her true calling, so she completely threw herself into the birth world and started to study more and more and earn more and more certifications.
When Michelle began her work she started out working with teen and low income mothers (serving families in Milwaukee, Waukesha, Racine, and Ozaukee counties) - after a few years of doing that she moved onto the more traditional family, but her passion for teens and low income women never left. In 2005 she decided to add to her skill set and certified as a Hypnotherapist, and in 2006 she became a licensed massage therapist (all things she happily offered to her clients). In 2009 after she gave birth to her 9th child she decided to enter nursing school, and while there she realized that she still really needed to follow her passion and through that passion she created Mothering the Mother Incorporated - a nonprofit organization that serves all women (catering especially to the underserved population who are not able to afford the services of a doula, classes or lactation support). She decided to throw herself fully and completely into operating Mothering the Mother, left nursing school and is so happy for the support that her husband and children have given her - at times doing this work is not fun on one's family, but they truly are her cheerleaders in work and life!
Michelle believes very strongly in participating in her community in addition to doing birth work. In 2014 she started to travel the United States and train individuals who want to become birth doulas, postpartum doulas, childbirth educators and who want to learn more about early lactation. In 2015 she joined the ICEA Board of Directors, and is still sitting on that board today (Michelle is currently the Director the Doula Programs, Chair for the Postpartum Doula Program, and Chair for the Mentorship Program...in the past she was the Treasurer and Director of Communication and Public Policy). In 2016 she started her path to becoming a La Leche League Leader and now leads a drop in group in West Allis. In addition to the work she does with Mothering the Mother, running her store, Beyond the Birth, and traveling to train individuals she is very active in her church, and other community organizations. She is extensively involved with ICEA (International Childbirth Education Association) as a board member and a Board Chair of the Postpartum Doula Program, and Chair of the mentorship and scholarship programs.
Michelle believes in always continuing her education and advancing her knowledge, so she regularly attends trainings and workshops to advance her skills. To learn more about all of her trainings, certification and education please see below. Michelle currently holds a license as teacher and massage therapist, and has certifications and/or advanced training as a breastfeeding counselor, birth doula (and trainer for Mothering the Mother/MTM Training and Mentoring and ICEA), postpartum doula (and trainer for Mothering the Mother/MTM Training and Mentoring and ICEA), childbirth educator (and trainer for Mothering the Mother/MTM Training and Mentoring and ICEA)), prenatal and postnatal massage therapist, infant massage therapist, prenatal and postpartum fitness educator and hypnotherapist.
In 2020 Michelle decided to pursue an additional avenue, and decided to open a licensed group daycare, Grandma’s Home Away From Home. When she isn’t teaching classes, doing lactation visits, or training she is there.
Michelle loves every aspect of her life and is always very grateful when someone invites her to join them on their journey through pregnancy, birth and parenting. Please consider scheduling an appointment to learn more about what she offers and can do.
Professional Massage Therapy Program (Lakeside School of Massage Therapy) / September 2006
Masters of Science in Education (Walden University) / April 2004
Bachelors of Science in Education (Alverno College) / December 1999
Certifications & Licenses:
*Certifications that Michelle chose not to renew, but held at one time.
MS.Ed - Masters of Science in Education
BS.Ed Bachelors of Science in Education
LMT - Licensed Massage Therapist
ICCE - ICEA Certified Childbirth Educator
ICBD - ICEA Certified Birth Doula
ICPD - ICEA Certified Postpartum Doula
ICPFE - ICEA Perinatal Fitness Educaator
IAT(CE-BD-PD) - ICEA Approved Trainer for Childbirth Education, Birth Doula and Postpartum Doula
MCH - Maternal Child Health Specialist
LC - Certified Lactation Counselor
CPMT - Certified Prenatal Massage Therapist
CHT - Certified Hypnotherapist
CEIM - Certified Educator of Infant Massage
SBD - Stillbirthday Certified Doula